Tantric Massage and the Big ‘O’

Imagine the scenario: You are having your tantric massage and it feels good. I mean, really good. You are feeling the great sensations that give you that warm fuzzy feeling, and a similar sensation is building up in the genitals. Is this normal? Do I go with it? What if I don’t feel this at all?

To relieve any anxiety, I can first say, this is asked often online.  I am also going to say this:

Orgasm is a Possibility, Not a Goal.

In tantric massage, an orgasm can serve as part of a broader process of healing and spiritual connection rather than being the primary goal. While many types of massage focus purely on relaxation, tantric massage incorporates sexual energy as a powerful force for overall wellbeing. So you might climax and you might not.

Here’s how an orgasm can help within the context of tantric massage:

• Energy Release: In tantric philosophy, orgasm is seen as a way to release and circulate life force energy. When this energy is released through orgasm, it can clear blockages and help it flow freely throughout the body.
• Energy transformation: The goal is not just physical release, but the transformation and redirection of sexual energy to promote vitality, emotional balance, and even spiritual awakening.
• Natural release of tension: Orgasm leads to the release of built-up physical and emotional tension. This is followed by deep relaxation due to the body’s shift from a heightened state of arousal to calm, reducing stress on both physical and psychological levels.
• Endorphins and oxytocin: I’ve said many times before, the human body is a big bag of hormones. During orgasm, the brain releases hormones like endorphins and oxytocin. These little bad boys enhance mood, promote feelings of happiness and connection, and help relieve anxiety and stress.

And here are a few Spiritual Pointers

• Connection to higher states of consciousness: In tantra, orgasm can be a path to reaching higher states of consciousness. This provides emotional release and spiritual insight. This can lead to personal growth, increased self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of your own body and mind.
• Opens emotional pathways: Orgasm during tantric massage can help people confront and release deep emotional blockages, promoting healing on an emotional and spiritual level.
• Prolonged orgasmic states: In tantric practices, orgasm is often extended or controlled. This allows you to experience longer waves of pleasure rather than a quick release. This extended state of pleasure helps one to explore intimacy and the body in a more mindful, balanced way.
• Non goal-oriented pleasure: But the journey is more important than the destination. Tantra emphasises that the focus is on deepening connection, sensation, body awareness, rather than rushing toward orgasm. Although, when orgasm does happen, it is seen as a natural expression of this connection.
• Healing Sexual Energy: For some, tantric massage and orgasm can be healing, particularly if you have experienced negative associations with sexuality. Tantric massage provides a safe, nurturing environment where sexual energy can be explored in a positive, mindful way.
• Empowerment: Focusing on your own body and its sensations, tantric practices (including orgasm) can be empowering. This results in you feeling more in control and connected to your sexual energy.
• Holistic integration: Orgasm in the tantric context is about more than physical pleasure. It’s about integrating sexual energy into your everyday life. This integration helps you feel more balanced, centered, and at peace with yourself. In turn this can significantly reduce long-term stress and improve your overall well-being.

So is an orgasm necessary in a Tantric Massage?

In tantric massage, the orgasm is viewed as one potential outcome but not the main objective. Instead, think of it as part of the broader experience of connecting your own body, energy, and consciousness. Once you do, reap the rewards of the physical and emotional benefits.

1. Deep Relaxation and Stress Relief
2. Emotional Healing and Release
3. Circulation and Energy Flow
4. Increased Sensitivity and Self-Awareness
5. Enhanced Intimacy and Connection
6. Prolonged Pleasure and Sensory Awareness
7. Spiritual Awakening and Transformation
8. Improved Sexual Health
9. Hormonal Balance

Conclusion

In summary, while orgasm is not the primary goal of tantric massage, when it happens, it offers multiple benefits beyond physical pleasure. The key is that the orgasm in tantra is viewed as part of a larger, holistic process that integrates the mind, body, and spirit.

But the aspect of mindfulness, emotional and spiritual growth, and relaxation, makes the experience beneficial and fulfilling with or without an orgasm.

Surrender to the experience of a tantric massage today. Tantricity London have a wide range of masseuses available both incall and outcall across Central London today. Find your Masseuse here.