Tantric vs. Erotic Massage

There is always a fine grey line between erotic massage and tantric massage. For sure, there are many stigmas bouncing around, but there are also many differences. For a start, the purpose, philosophy and approach are significantly different.

Erotic Massage

Philosophy and Goal: The primary focus is sexual pleasure and physical stimulation. So the aim is often to arouse and achieve sexual gratification or orgasm.

Experience: Centres on heightened physical sensations and stimulation of erogenous zones. There is less focus on mindfulness or spiritual aspects.

Techniques: Involves intense stimulation of specific areas such as the genitals (in the way that you think). This is typically fast-paced and designed for physical pleasure.

Spiritual Dimension: As the focus is more on physical desire, the overall experience is devoid of spiritual or meditative elements.

Tantric Massage

Philosophy and Goal: The philosophy, stems around ancient Tantric traditions, integrating body, mind, and spirit. Therefore the primary focus is energy flow rather than physical stimulation.
The aim is to awaken kundalini energy (life force energy). This help individuals achieve a state of deep relaxation, self-awareness, and spiritual connection.

Experience: Uses a holistic approach involving mindfulness, breathing techniques and full-body touch. In this case, the aim is to release emotional or energetic blockages in the body. Instead of intimacy and sensuality being the end goal, instead they serve as tools for connection and healing.

Techniques: Uses slow, intentional movements, and specific rituals that honour your body. There may be stimulation of erogenous zones, but the focus is on energy circulation, not achieving orgasm.

Spiritual Dimension: The emphasis in tantric massage is to create a sacred space for self-exploration and emotional healing. This is why tantric is often viewed as a meditative / sacred practice.

Benefits of Erotic and Tantric massages

The benefits for both an erotic and a tantric massage are generally the same:

• Stress relief
• Improved circulation
• Muscle relaxation
• Sensory awareness
• Hormonal balance
• Enhanced connection
• Better self confidence
• Heightened sensitivty
• Better orgasm control

However tantric massage also boasts:

• Energy flow
• Emotional release
• Emotional balance balance
• Enhanced clarity/focus
• Anxiety/depression relief
• Prolonged pleasure
• Holistic healing
• Empowerment
• Better vitality
• Prolonged pleasure

Emphasis on that last one! By using sexual energy as a tool not an outcome teaches better control over sexual energy. This leads to longer lasting pleasure/fulfillment. That alone sounds better than instant gratification.

Conclusion

While tantric massage involves sensuality and touch, it is deeply rooted in personal growth and spirituality, whereas erotic massage focuses on physical satisfaction. The experience of tantric massage is often seen as transformational, while erotic massage is more purely hedonistic.

If you would like to book your first tantric massage experience and unlock a world way more fulfilling than a standard “erotic” massage then contact Tantricity London today. We have several massage therapists that operate incall and outcall across Central London.